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All thing motherhood, step-motherhood & living a KICK-ASS Life


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All thing motherhood, step-motherhood & living a KICK-ASS Life


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HEY! I'M JAMIE

I'm a coffee & wine loving second wife, stepmom, and mom on a mission to debunk the stigma associated with being a stepmom. Fuelled by coffee, wine and positive vibes, I write candidly about our blended life and help fellow stepmoms live a KICK-ASS Life amongst, the extra stressors that come with marrying a man with kids! 

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She questions everything. She tests everything. She doesn’t take no for an answer... I’m not going to lie, some days she drives me freaking nuts. At the same time she makes me incredibly proud... because those qualities right there, are a huge part of the equation for success) we just have to find a way to make it through the next 15 years or so....) . Happy Friday!!!
Thirsty Thursday is even more enjoyable when your bottles have labels that accurately describe the reason you’re having wine in the first place 😉!! Happy Friday Eve everyone! 🍷 .⠀ PS Seriously though, how flipping fun are these Honest Wine Labels from @vinepair? They’re the perfect hosting gift/stocking stuffer!! {Link in profile} You’re welcome! #sponsored @vinepair
Okay listen up. Here’s what the stepmoms want you to know... We aren’t evil We aren’t trying to replace our stepchildren’s mom We don’t resent our stepkids being around We aren’t trying to overstep, or take over, or cause conflict.... We aren’t home wreckers We simply fell in love with a man with kids, and are doing the best we can navigating this role... We just want the best for our family and it’s not an easy task.. (and yes they’re our family too) . We’re expected to be involved but not too involved ... Parent them like they’re our own, while not acting like they’re our own (that would be over-stepping).... We’re good enough for the appointments, the homework, the running around but better step aside for those milestone moments, because we need to know our place . all while living a life dictated by custody schedules, separation agreements, and co-parenting arrangements and the “I don’t have to listen to you because you’re not my mom” mentality of our Society . I’m not complaining. I love being a stepmom... my stepkids happen to be three of the best people I know... . But either way, when you’re a stepmom you’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t . The message? Loose the stereotype. Screw the stigma. Forget about what Cinderella told you.... . Give the stepmoms the benefit of the doubt, and look at it this way. There more people who can WORK TOGETHER to raise these kids up into kind, successful, happy, well-adjusted adults... the better! You can NEVER have too many people love you. IT’S NOT A COMPETITION. . Tag a stepmom who may need this message today... or one who you think is doing a KICK-ASS job! oh and have yourself the BEST day!
Give this photo a double tap if the cost of winter gear for kids blows your mind. This year Reese outgrew her coat AND snow pants. Not cheap! . Guys, a recent study completed by @quakercanada showed that more than one in five Canadian parents have struggled financially to ensure their child is dressed appropriately for winter. . Think about that! I’ll admit, it really helped put some of my stressors into perspective. . A few weeks back, I told you that I am extremely passionate about ONLY partnering with brands that I want to shout off the roof tops about. Well this right here, falls in that category. . This year, @quakercanada has partnered with the Boys and Girls Clubs in Canada to provide NEW WINTER COATS to families in need. Now, during the month of November, every time the hashtag #JoyofWarmth is used on a public Facebook, Twitter and Instagram account, Quaker Canada will also provide a bowl of warm oatmeal to a child in need at Boys and Girls Club locations across the country. . Like many of you, these pictures show a normal morning for us. Hot nutritious breakfast, warm winter coat. This isn’t the case for so many families! . Please, take twenty seconds out of your day, use the hashtag #JoyofWarmth, tag @QuakerCanada, and spread the word on social media! Everyone deserves to be warm this winter! . #sponsored
You’ve probably heard me talk about this before, but going to my stepsons hockey used to give me anxiety. Awkward lobby coparenting interactions, wanting to be involved while not over-stepping... finding my place with “the moms” while being “just the stepmom”⠀ . My first year, one of the moms looked at me and asked “are you just waiting for them to say to you, ‘I don’t have to listen to you, you’re not my mom?” ... ummm no, but thanks!⠀ . Another one told me I was basically the same age as my stepdaughter ....last time I checked 13 and 30 were two very different ages, but okay?!⠀ . The list goes on....⠀ . Fast forward to NOW ... I love going to hockey. I’ve met some of my best friends through the team. Tournaments are a blast! ⠀ . I guess the point is that as with everything in life, you have to let time do it’s thing, let the snarky comments roll off your back, surround yourself with people who make you feel good, grow thick skin and remember what it’s all about.... THE KIDS! . Another great weekend for the books! Go Warriors!!!
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STEPMOM SUPPORT


STEPMOM SUPPORT


Do you ever wish there was a stepmom handbook? I know I sure did. When I couldn't find one, I decided to create one. 

As a Life Coach with a Specialization in Stepfamily Dynamics (and stepmom who's been there) I provide solution focused support to Stepmoms who want to THRIVE amongst the extra chaos that can and does come with stepfamily life. 

With a Honours BA in Psychology, a diploma in Social Service Work and 5+ years supporting families in crisis, I've combined my education & work experience with my personal experiences as both a stepmom and a child of divorce to create one-of-a-kind programs that Stepmoms are calling a total "stepfamily game changer" 

 

THE KICK-ASS STEPMOM PROJECT™

THE KICK-ASS STEPMOM COMMUNITY™ 

E-BOOK - 101 WAYS TO BE A KICK-ASS STEPMOM™  

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WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...


WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...


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“She’s changing the game in the stepmom world and creating a community for Stepmoms who love the role”
— Cat & Nat
“Jamie has been the most influential stepmom during my transition from single & childless to married & stepmama of two. I encourage any stepmom to join this community and enjoy the fun. ”
— Kendall Mann Price
“Jamie has an excellent grasp on how to gently guide others on positive step-parenting. She shares personal experiences and also offers advice on handling conflict or random situations that will inevitably pop up in the step-parenting role. Her ability to also focus one-on-one and in group settings is phenomenal - and I especially appreciate that her focus is based on positivity and resolution rather than a forum for ranting or bashing. I highly recommend her!””
— Jen | Blogger at Lemons into Vodka
“The thing I love about Jamie is that she has this amazing ability to provide excellent support and top-notch strategies while also being approachable, fun and relatable. She walks-the-talk in every way, sharing openly and honestly about her personal experiences with a focus on solutions and strengths. Her style is uplifting and empowering, arming other mothers with the practical tools they need to thrive”
— Kelly. Bourne | Georgetown ON