It's time to remove the guilt and anxiety we all feel when we don't measure up to unreal expectations that we've set for ourselves! We need to stop comparing ourselves to how we think everyone else is parenting! It's time to just be real!
I asked you guys if your husband's bother you too (in that fun loving, pick up your god damn socks kind of way). 90% of you said yes, and well, the other 10 percent of you are liars
Here are four reasons why we prefer to date during the day... especially during our "week-on"
Have I ever told you about one of my husband and I's first fights?
It happened on the first snowfall after we got engaged. We woke up in the morning to see the ground covered in white stuff. He was instantly giddy (the man loves all thing winter sports) and I was instantly in a bad mood.
"What's your problem?" he asked.
"I hate winter. Like I hate everything to do with winter... If I could hibernate until spring I would"
Well, we actually got into a heated conversation about my "poor attitude". Apparently he was unaware that that I hated winter when he got down and popped the question. He and the kids both LOVE winter sports
Always, to make a long story short, I had a choice. I could continue to be the Debbie Downer of winter or I could get myself some snow gear and try and change my attitude.
I choose the second.
Almost 6 years into our relationship, I still prefer the heat over the cold, however I have come to have an appreciation for winter sports, especially skiing. It's actually amazing for "family time".
In fact, skiing has become one of my favourite things to do in the winter (well, other than lying on a Caribbean beach with a Pina colada that is) ...
A few weeks back, we took my youngest stepson and Reese on a little road trip to Holiday Valley in Ellicotvile. It's our favourite ski resort sand we make a point fo going at least once a season!
Last minute, the older two weren't able to get off school, so they stayed back with their mom. It was pretty disappointing, but also gave us lots of one -on-one time with my youngest stepson, which is hard to get in a big blended family!
Always, I blogged the getaway (and a major parenting we had with Reese) ... Enjoy!
A huge thanks for Holiday Valley for hosting us again this year. As always, it was a phenomenal time!
They say the first year of marriage is your honeymoon phase. It's supposed to be the easiest year of your marriage. I don't think that applies to second marriages or stepfamily situations. It wasn't for us at least.
Relationship in a funk? Need to get your groove back, but don't know where to start? Certified Sexologist, Kelly McDonnell-Arnold, Ceritific has some practical and do-able tips to relight the spark!
We're always concerned with the stepkids feeling left out, but sometimes it's the "ours baby" that gets the short end of the stick.
All I want to do is open up the conversation about blended family life and debunk the stigma associated with being a stepmom!
My New Years Resos have been a flop! But I'm not ready to throw in the towel just yet.
Because you know what they say, when you know better, you do better!