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Today I’m thankful for sauvignon blanc and YouTube kids... you?⠀

Do ya get what I’m saying here?

This week has been all about coffee shops, getting back into routine and hammering out the last tips for my upcoming e-book 101 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom⠀
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A few of you have asked for a little⠀
preview of what you can expect from the E-book, so today I’m sharing my number one piece of advice for stepmoms (especially those in the midst of some stepfamily stressors) ⠀
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CHECK YOURSELF! When things are going sideways we have a tendency to blame other people!⠀
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“Well my stepkids are doing this! My stepkids mom is doing that. If only my husband would just....”⠀
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Instead of blaming everyone else, take a moment and really think about whether you are doing anything to contribute to the problem. Are your reactions making matters worse? Are you adding fuel to the fire. Are you sweating the small stuff and starting unnecessary issues? Think about what you can you do differently to improve the dynamics... and then do it! Remember, you can’t control how other people act but YOU CAN CONTROL your own reactions.⠀
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And hey .... “be selective in your battles, sometimes peace is better than being right”⠀
... and that applies to all areas of life!
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