This is a one-of-a-kind, no bull-shit, solution focused Program for Stepmoms who want to THRIVE (not just survive) this crazy beautiful blended family life! 

I'm not a Psychologist or a Social Worker. I'm a Stepmom who once upon a time found herself crying on the bathroom floor with a glass of wine wondering what the heck I was thinking when I decided to marry a single dad with three kids!  

was in need of some major support. But I couldn't find it. So I decided to create it! 

Over the past few years I've dug my head deep into all the stepfamily resources I can find. 
As a Life Coach with A Specialization In Stepfamily Dynamics, I've combined all the information I've been taught with my experiences as both a stepmom and a child of divorce, and created a program with all the strategies I used to get myself up off that bathroom floor and start to THRIVE amongst the chaos of Stepfamily Life! 

What You'll Learn

How to prevent stepfamily drama from consuming your thoughts
How to identify and come to terms with your Stepfamily Stressors
The COLD HARD TRUTHS of Stepfamily Life
How to have a healthy relationship with his ex-wife (no matter what her agenda is)
How to set boundaries without being seen as the "evil-stepmom"
How to manage your relationship with your step-kids
Why empathy is a complete game changer
Why I think forgiveness is Bullsh*t when it comes to most Stepfamily Stressors ... and what I think you should do instead
Why your Stepfamily is different than a "first family" 
The 10 Conversations that you NEED to have with your husband
The two relationships that are the foundation for success
When & how to disengage
How to define your role and find your unique place in your family

... and most importantly, how connecting with a group of likeminded step-mamas is just what the doctor ordered! 


What You'll Get

What You'll Get

* The KICK-ASS Stepmom Project E-Book
* 4 Weeks of Course Content, Videos + Worksheets sent to your inbox each week
* Flexibility to complete the course at your own pace
* Access to our Exclusive Interactive Facebook Group where you can connect with and seek support from likeminded stepmoms
* Lifetime Access to all future KICK-ASS Stepmom Project Content


* 4 Weeks of Online Interactive Stepmom Support
* The KICK-ASS STEPMOM Project E-Book
* An interactive Weekly Group Call (recorded for those who can't make it live)
* Tips, Strategies and Resources to help you thrive
* Email Coaching throughout the Duration of the Program
* An Interactive Facebook Group where you can connect with other likeminded stepmoms
* Life time access to all future KICK-ASS Stepmom Projects

$99 US

$199 US


Not sure if The KICK-ASS Stepmom Project is right for you?
Contact Me to set up a 15 minute discovery call to see we're a good fit!!


Praise & Gratitude | What Other KICK-ASS STEPMOMS Are Saying...

I highly recommend y’all get involved with the next KICK-ASS Stepmom Project... Since we wrapped up the inaugural project back in June, I’ve been in SUCH a better place with myself, my boyfriend, my stepson and even HIS MOM! Never would I have thought prior to the sessions that I would be able to think this clearly about our blended family situation. I frequently catch myself thinking in my head, “what would Jamie tell me to do in this situation?!?” She not only gets it and is easy to talk to, but the group classes turned into girls night that I looked forward to every week! Definitely worth the investment
— Allie V | Frederick, Maryland
I walked away from the Project feeling more confident and in control of my feelings.
— Lindsay | Green Bay, Wisconsin
“The Kick-Ass Stepmom Project is like having your own personal tribe of women that just GET YOU. It helped me tremendously to identify and separate my concerns about my blended family into categories of things I can control, things I cannot, things that truly matter, and things that just don’t. I silenced a lot of worries in my head, and find myself saying “Eh, that’s life!”, a lot more these days. Jamie helps us all to look at our situations from a birds eye point of view, and helps us to direct our feelings in a positive direction. I also really loved the fact that she encouraged specific discussions between husbands and wives; it is imperative in stepfamily life that the marriage in the home is on the same page. I fell more in love with my husband, my stepdaughter, and gained a great group of new friendships along the way!”
— Colleen Lemaire | Author of I Have A Stepmom & I Have A Stepdad
“I joined the project during a time when I felt like I was drowning in my new role as a step-mom. It was so encouraging to hear from other women like me and realize that I was not alone and it WOULD get better! Jamie did a great job of navigating each individual situation and providing healthy, practical ideas about how to move forward. “
— Mickey
The positive vibes during all the sessions, and no bitching & complaining was just amazing. The KICK-ASS Stepmom Project is focused on taking control of your stepmom life and provides you with the tools to do so.
— Gina | Coldstream, British Columbia
After finding myself hanging on to her every word written, I knew I had to get in contact with Jamie! She seemed to know me & relate to my situation before we had even communicated! Her real-life stepfamily experiences were so helpful. I have put her suggestions into practice & still reference our last email often. In this crazy world of step parenting, it’s amazing to have support from someone like Jamie to help navigate!
— Jennifer - FL, USA
Stumbling upon the Poptart Diaries, for me, has been the discovery of a lifetime! It’s funny how things tend to fall in your lap at times they are needed. I came across The Poptart Diaries one day while on Facebook, a friend had shared one of Jamie’s posts. THANK YOU FRIEND! I have enjoyed reading the pieces on parenting and more specifically step parenting. It’s always a relief to find out you are not alone in what ever circumstance you find yourself in. I reached out to Jamie personally and received some great feedback. She demonstrates candour yet compassion for your situation. I thank you for your openness and for even following up with me to see how things were going
— Monica - London, Ontario
I came across The Poptart Diaries one night when I was anxiously trying to find some positive feedback or success stories about young stepmoms on the internet. I was getting worried because I felt like everywhere I looked, I found negative stories about being the “wicked stepmom”. but the second I opened up The Poptart Diaries I felt completely relieved. I felt like someone truly understood what I was going through, I was thrilled. I emailed Jamie and I got the most heartfelt response ever. We talked regularly and she gave me some amazing advice that I will never forget. She was the friend I needed at the time I can’t thank her enough for that. She reassured me through rough times and listened when I was worried about the unknown future. She is a great coach and without her I don’t know where I Would be. I highly recommend Jamie to anyone entering a relationship with a single dad or considering a role as a stepmom. Step parenting can be tricky some days but at the end of the day blood isn’t what a family is made of; love is
— Megan - Edmonton